It’s time to question and challenge the notion of the “discovery” meeting.
For many advisors, this is as close to sacrilegious as you can get – how dare challenge what the leaders of the profession have always preached and still espouse today.
Why aren’t advisors given the same instant respect, trust and authority as doctors?
Doctors don’t do discovery meetings.
The notion of “discovery” was invented in the early 80’s, before the profession became commoditized.
It was used successfully for decades as a peer-to-peer communication framework between two professionals, engaged in the mutual gathering and disclosure of knowledge and information.
That was based on the assumption that the information shared was uniquely available from the professionals sharing it.
Fast track to today, information and knowledge has become commoditized and most people already have an advisor or they’re in “shopping” mode.
Doctors operate differently and here’s the distinction you need to understand to avoid becoming commoditized.
A doctor’s job is to tell their patient what their underlying issues are impacting the problem they’re experiencing, making sure they’re committed to addressing it, then prescribing what must be done to fix it.
That’s not a peer-to-peer interaction between two equals where information is shared.
It’s an authority-based interaction between an expert and a non-expert, where instructions are handed down.
What’s required in this seamless interaction is that the patient trusts the doctor to know what they’re talking about and has their best interests in mind.
For this to happen, the doctor must operate in a manner consistent with that expectation.
They must preserve the patient’s trust in their authority by keeping the interaction strictly ‘expert to non-expert’ – that’s why doctors don’t do coffee with their patients.
The Discovery Meeting Diminishes Your Status (which forces you to “sell”).
Advisors need to ditch the discovery meeting model, which drops their status from authority to peer.
The initial consultation is not a peer-to-peer moment to discover whether you and your potential client are a “fit”.
It’s a diagnosis moment where you, like a doctor, define the scope and parameters of your prospect’s problem that brought them to you in the first place.
A discovery meeting creates the need for another meeting.
Why would you want to extend your sales process?
A trust-based deep-dive diagnostic meeting creates clarity around their issues, which highlights and justifies the need to solve them.
When executed with empathy and bed-side manner, there is no longer a need to sell your knowledge, expertise or value.
Your prospect has already bought into you on the depth and strength of the clarity you’ve provided around their issues, “peeling back the onion” of what they can’t articulate on their own.
Stop delivering value, it’s now commoditized – instead, deliver intense clarity by becoming the trusted authority around the underlying issues and insights invisible to them.
Become A Trusted Authority.
In an ‘expert to non-expert’ interaction, the success of the interaction depends on the degree to which the non-expert (your prospect) views the expert (you) as being a trusted authority, or in other words…
As someone they can trust to solve their problems, because you’ve proven through your non-discovery selling behaviors that you care deeply about the impact and cost-of-inaction of not solving their issues.
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Ari Galper is the World’s #1 Authority on Trust-Based Selling and the creator of Unlock The Game®, a new sales mindset and approach that overturns the notion of selling as we know it today. With thousands of subscribers and clients in over 35 countries, Unlock The Game® has become the most successful Trust-Based Selling approach of our time.
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