
For many advisors, getting commitment in an initial meeting with a prospect, is like playing the slots at a casino.
You close your eyes, pull the lever, and hope for the best.
After all, you can’t force anyone to commit to you.
If they’re not ready, they’re not ready, right?
Here’s the issue…
In the world we live in today, your potential clients have more options, and shorter attention spans, than ever before.
Once the initial meeting ends, your chances of securing a paying client takes a nose dive.
When you gamble on a game where the odds are stacked against you, you’re leaving the success of your business to chance — instead of strategy.
The reality is, whether a prospect commits to a next step in the first meeting with you, reflects more on your process, than on their readiness.
With the right approach, a qualified lead should convert into a paying client 100% of the time.
The only reason this claim seems outlandish, is because the traditional sales mindset you’ve been taught, has convinced you sales is a numbers game.
But think about it, when a potential client meets with you, they’re coming to you for help.
Which means:
When you accept that it could be you, and not them, you take back your power and control — allowing you to break free from the limiting beliefs bottlenecking your business, and holding you back from achieving your full potential.
The entire game changes, when you understand the why behind a qualified lead’s hesitation to take the next step.
When they tell you “they’re not ready”, “they’re talking to other advisors”, it’s simply code for: I don’t trust you yet.
It’s all about trust. Nothing else.
A lack of trust on their end, means they don’t feel comfortable enough committing to working with you to fix their problem.
Why?
It’s likely a result of the conversation being focused too much on you, instead of them.
Here’s the hard truth: Your solution has been commoditized, and is no longer the core consideration in their decision to hire you.
To get a commitment, they need to feel their situation and challenges have been heard and understood at a deep level (emotional), before ever hearing about what you have to offer (logical).
This doesn’t mean you become a therapist.
It simply means you fully immerse yourself into their world with empathy and care, without an agenda to move them forward.
When they sense you’re present in the moment, the truth begins to flow and trust is built naturally and in a short period of time.
Hesitancy and resistance melt away, and a yearning desire for your help takes its place.
They will happily commit to you, once they know they can trust you.
When you master the skill of trust building, instead of selling, you won’t have to hope for a commitment ever again.
You’ll be like a doctor, who diagnoses the problem — once there’s heightened awareness of the issue, the treatment plan becomes obvious, and the patient agrees to move forward.
To learn more about trust-based selling, and how you can start converting 100% of your qualified leads, order your complimentary books and consultation below.











Ari Galper is the world’s number one authority on trust-based selling and is one the most sought-after sales conversion experts for advisors and business owners.
He is the creator of Unlock The Game®, a completely new revolutionary sales approach that overturns the notion of selling as we know it today.
Ari has been featured in CEO Magazine, SkyNews, Forbes, INC Magazine and Financial Advisor Magazine – and has been a featured speaker at the Financial Planning Association’s national conference.
His newest book, “TRUST In A Split Second!”, has become an instant best-seller among high-trust advisors worldwide.
With clients in over 35 countries, his global sales systems have become the most successful Trust-Based Selling systems of our time.
In a day and age where technology rules the selling world, for many growth-oriented advisors, deep trust has taken a “back seat” to the sales process.
Ari’s personal insights on how to build trust between buyers and sellers continue to break new ground in virtually every industry.
Ari has been on a mission for the last two decades to change the business world through trust as a foundational principle.
Through his sold-out talks all over the world and his in-house trainings for high-producing advisors, Ari has become the global ambassador to businesses all over the world.
He regularly connects with global business icons and leaders of industries seeking his counsel on how to infuse trust in their organisations and across their teams.
His work in the trust-based selling field, focusing on reversing control of the sales process, from buyer to seller, is considered category-of-one thinking, with over a two decades of proven execution and results.
With clients in over 35 countries, his global sales systems have become the most successful Trust-Based Selling systems of our time.
In a day and age where technology rules the selling world, for many growth-oriented advisors, deep trust has taken a “back seat” to the sales process.
Ari’s personal insights on how to build trust between buyers and sellers continue to break new ground in virtually every industry.
Ari has been on a mission for the last two decades to change the business world through trust as a foundational principle.
Through his sold-out talks all over the world and his in-house trainings for high-producing advisors, Ari has become the global ambassador to businesses all over the world.
He regularly connects with global business icons and leaders of industries seeking his counsel on how to infuse trust in their organisations and across their teams.
His work in the trust-based selling field, focusing on reversing control of the sales process, from buyer to seller, is considered category-of-one thinking, with over a two decades of proven execution and results.
