
Most advisors still cling to the old “know, like & trust” model.
The goal?
To build a relationship with prospects, hoping they’ll eventually choose to work with you.
This approach often leads to long sales cycles — countless meetings and quite a few lunches.
But let’s get real: there’s a big difference between building a relationship and establishing genuine trust.
Creating real relationships takes time, after they are a paying client.
But when it comes to prospects?
It’s a different story.
Trust can be built in just one meeting if you ditch the idea that your prospect needs to like you first.
That doesn’t mean you should be anything less than your warm self.
It just means you can ease up on the overly friendly vibe that can feel fake.
Here’s a crucial point: Your prospects aren’t looking for another friend.
They don’t even have to like you to work with you.
Think about the advisors you trust –your doctor, dentist or lawyer.
You respect their expertise, not their friendship.
This might challenge everything you’ve learned up until now.
So, how do you create the trust that positions you as the right advisor?
Here are four key strategies:
1. Dive Deep Into Their Issues
Get to the heart of what’s really going on for them.
2. Hold Back on Solutions in the First Meeting
Stop trying to prove yourself right away.
3. Use a Road Map
Provide a simple visual aid that outlines your onboarding process from start to finish — the easier it is to understand, the better.
4. Let them take ownership of their issues
When they feel ready to take action, they’ll be more inclined to work with you.
By simplifying your pre-sale process and removing the relationship aspect, you take away a layer that might make them think you’re just being friendly to win them over.
Focus on building real trust, because that’s what leads to lasting partnerships.
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Ari Galper is the world’s number one authority on trust-based selling and is one the most sought-after sales conversion experts for advisors and business owners.
He is the creator of Unlock The Game®, a completely new revolutionary sales approach that overturns the notion of selling as we know it today.
Ari has been featured in CEO Magazine, SkyNews, Forbes, INC Magazine and Financial Advisor Magazine – and has been a featured speaker at the Financial Planning Association’s national conference.
His newest book, “TRUST In A Split Second!”, has become an instant best-seller among high-trust advisors worldwide.
With clients in over 35 countries, his global sales systems have become the most successful Trust-Based Selling systems of our time.
In a day and age where technology rules the selling world, for many growth-oriented advisors, deep trust has taken a “back seat” to the sales process.
Ari’s personal insights on how to build trust between buyers and sellers continue to break new ground in virtually every industry.
Ari has been on a mission for the last two decades to change the business world through trust as a foundational principle.
Through his sold-out talks all over the world and his in-house trainings for high-producing advisors, Ari has become the global ambassador to businesses all over the world.
He regularly connects with global business icons and leaders of industries seeking his counsel on how to infuse trust in their organisations and across their teams.
His work in the trust-based selling field, focusing on reversing control of the sales process, from buyer to seller, is considered category-of-one thinking, with over a two decades of proven execution and results.
With clients in over 35 countries, his global sales systems have become the most successful Trust-Based Selling systems of our time.
In a day and age where technology rules the selling world, for many growth-oriented advisors, deep trust has taken a “back seat” to the sales process.
Ari’s personal insights on how to build trust between buyers and sellers continue to break new ground in virtually every industry.
Ari has been on a mission for the last two decades to change the business world through trust as a foundational principle.
Through his sold-out talks all over the world and his in-house trainings for high-producing advisors, Ari has become the global ambassador to businesses all over the world.
He regularly connects with global business icons and leaders of industries seeking his counsel on how to infuse trust in their organisations and across their teams.
His work in the trust-based selling field, focusing on reversing control of the sales process, from buyer to seller, is considered category-of-one thinking, with over a two decades of proven execution and results.
