As an advisor, it’s crucial to recognize that you’re not simply in the financial advice business.
First and foremost, you’re in the problem-solving business.
This shift in mindset is vital because, regardless of your expertise or how long you’ve been in practice, if your potential clients don’t fully comprehend the depth and impact of their own issues during your initial conversation, they’ll never commit to resolving them with you.
Shifting from a solution-centric to a problem-centric approach is key to fostering deep trust in your sales process and shortening your sales cycle from multiple meetings.
Often times when your prospects describe their issues to you, you might feel tempted to respond with education and potential solutions to demonstrate your value.
It’s easy to assume they’re judging you based on your solution-based expertise.
The truth is, they aren’t hiring you based on your competence (they can’t judge that until after they’re a client), they are hiring you based on how much they trust you.
The key to earning respect and trust is to avoid assuming that a potential client understands the full extent of their own problems.
What they’re truly searching for, though they may struggle to articulate it, is a truth-teller.
They need someone who can reveal what they don’t yet understand about their own challenges.
For instance, if your prospect states, “I’m retiring soon and am looking to hire a financial advisor,” that statement merely expresses their desire.
It bypasses the deeper issues underlying their initial concern.
Rather than taking their initial statement at face value, consider saying:
“Not a problem. I’m happy to help with that.
What might be more beneficial is if we can take a step back for a moment, so you can walk me through your background, your situation, and your biggest financial concerns about retirement, and we can go from there. Would you be open to that?”.
This approach keeps you in their world and prevents potentially harmful assumptions that could derail your sales process later.
It also helps avoid placing blame on your shoulders when you deliver what they ask for, then they say to you: “I want to think about it.”
If they attempt to rush ahead, stay present in their world and delve into trust-based questions (not fact-finding questions) that lead them to explore the deeper layers of their issues.
Your goal is to continue probing beneath the surface until they genuinely recognize the urgency of addressing their problem with you.
When you reach that point and the problem becomes undeniably clear, ask this question: “Is this a priority for you to resolve once and for all?”
Your focus should not be about closing the sale, instead it should be about helping them uncover the truth of their problems so they can take ownership and commit to addressing them you.
By guiding them to own their challenges, you’ll significantly reduce the likelihood of needing to “chase” them after your first conversation.
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Ari Galper is the World’s #1 Authority on Trust-Based Selling and the creator of Unlock The Game®, a new sales mindset and approach that overturns the notion of selling as we know it today. With thousands of subscribers and clients in over 35 countries, Unlock The Game® has become the most successful Trust-Based Selling approach of our time.
In a day and age where technology rules the selling world, for many growth-oriented business owners and sales consultants, authenticity and trust have taken a “back seat” to the sales process. Unlock The Game puts trust back into selling in such an elegant and natural way, that the truth quickly emerges between seller and buyer, so the painful and arduous “chasing” process no longer has to happen to make a sale.



